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Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Day 19 - Disrespecting your parents

And now for the most annoying topic of them all, disrespecting your parents. Am sure there isn't anyone who hasn't done this ever in your life but am sure that there are some who take this quite seriously.

On my point of view, this isn't my thing at all as I am a person who lives my life as how I want it to be like. I hate people telling me what to do and what to believe in. My parents do that alot. Honestly my parents claim that they are open minded but honestly I don't quite think so. However, parents are parents.

Sadly true and we can't run away from that fact. I do also know that 1 day I will be a parent too and when that happens, I don't quite know what kinda parent I would be. Though I would really wanna be the really cool daddy that everyone is so jealous of. *chuckles*

A little off topic maybe? Anyways, I am a stubborn personality and as I mentioned above I hate being told things. But gradually as I grew older I learned that parents tell me things for a reason and I kinda also learned to see it positively rather than negative. How I do it? Wait till I publish my memoirs. LOL Just kidding.

I learned it through some self-reflection moment that I have done over myself over and over for a couple of years now. I have become from what I used to be and what I am becoming. Even at this point of time, I can't simply say all my characteristics 100% accurately cause am changing.

Sometimes kids tend to hate their parents for various reasons but they don't really think too deeply into things. As I have friends who often complain "Why me?!" or "What the heck is their problem?!" and etc. I came to realize that generally people don't like to put the blame on themselves first rather than easily pointing it to the other.

Taking blame for something is considered very courageous but managing to deal with it effectively is pure genius I'd say. If only we could put aside our egos and put extra time and effort to handle these situations, I think the world would be an ideal place to live in with no fear of wrongdoings. But we are all humans with some natural habits that we can't simply give up.

As how we all change from day in and day out, so does the trends and lifestyle. Even we young adults have trouble with dealing with our own younger generations, so what about our parents? Ever thought about it in that way? It is our duty to explain to them on how things work in our era and show them how far everything has changed compared to theirs.

Am sure we have parents whom always say stuffs like "When I was young......." and so on whenever they disagree with what us. But do they actually realized that times have changed? Maybe not. Plus they have looked out for us, maybe not perfectly well but somehow enough to make it through and we can't exactly blame them. Unless of course they have issues.

There isn't any rule book or user manuals on how to be a good parent because different people have different styles and we can't compare them to those of our friends. Some parents are athletic, some are outgoing, some are funny, some are creative, some are active and we also have some who are passive. We can't expect a creative parent to be running around playing soccer with the younger son but he might probably be able to teach his kids arts. Can't say that, "My dad doesn't play soccer. He sucks!" right?

Every parent brings up their kids the best way the thing it is with some guidance and advice from their friends, family and their own parents. So by putting all of it together, they try their best. Not all but SOME! I know some parents of whom I've got no comments at all. As long as the gratitude feel is there then it counts I suppose.

Personally I done really go along very well with my parents. I'd admit that because my style and theirs is totally different. However, I am quite close to my mum for whom I don't mind sacrificing my time and energy to accompany her or just be her driver to put a smile on her face. As much as we argue, when there is an issue that needs sorting out, we have a discussion about it regardless of the topic.

Though some years back, it would never have happened as I was not as matured as I am at the moment. But now, I think life has taught me to appreciate things in life which are simply irreplaceable. No matter how successful we could be, if we lose them once, thats it. There is no turning back and no time for regrets.

I don't like living with regrets but I am man enough to admit that I have done things that I ain't so proud of. I regret doing them but rather than crying over spilled milk, I rather learn to make up for what I have done. Though I could not be enough atleast it's better than nothing.

Honestly, I think I have gone outa topic. I really have no idea of what I have actually wrote up there. But am sure there isn't any negative stuffs there. Hope you guys could get some valuable input from that as I crack my head for my Day 20th topic. Cheers yo!

Day 18: Your beliefs

Well I really needed some help to write this topic. Not that its too difficult or anything just that I didn't quite have proper clue of what to do with it. Anyways I shall convey to ya'll my beliefs as much as I could.

Not gonna give myself up totally if not there ain't gonna be much fun, no? Plus people change. =)

Anyways,


I believe in Love, regardless of any form it could be. Be it friends, family, and etc.

I believe that everybody makes mistakes and deserve a chance more than once. We can't say that 1 will never make a mistake more than once. We are not machines and even machines makes more mistakes than once.

I believe that respect needs to be given first in order to be respected regardless of any age or status in life.

I believe that friendships can be build from anything and everything.

I believe that religion was invented as a guideline so that we don't overly abuse our abilities and freedom as humans.

I believe that we are all of the same kind, which is mankind.

I believe that music is an important factor in everyone's life.

I believe in fighting for a cause. A real cause appropriate cause of course!!! =D


I believe that every problem has a solution to it.

Actually I believe in quite a lot of things but some things don't quite make sense hence I am going to stop here. Thought I would be able to make it through to the end asap but the rest of the 12 topics ain't that friendly. LOL

But I shall try my level best!

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Relationship Status

Though I don't quite remember when I exactly saw this movie, I haven't really got the chance to put it up here since then. Probably a month plus has passed since then and there wasn't proper chance for me to take my time and write it.

Anyways, amazingly enough my friend and I went to watch this Malaysian made movie and I personally got a shocker! Not to belittle Malaysian movie industry but I honestly felt that we haven't really made much progress with our stuff that I'd rather watch it in a cinema and feel good about it later on. However, this movie really blew me away.


The Plot
You’ve seen it everywhere. On TV, in the news, and even on T-shirts. And though its use has been seen in a couple of movies, not many films have been made about Facebook.
Which is what sets Relationship Status aside from other romantic dramas out there. True to its name, the film bases itself off the seven relationship Facebook settings (Single, Engaged, Married, Divorced, etc).

With each setting comes a different story, and like the social networking platform, they are connected to each other more closely than you can imagine.

The movie starts off with magazine writer Dave (Gavin Yap) being asked to write a column about Facebook. But his mind isn’t really on the job, as he spends a good lot of his time looking at Anna’s (his pseudo-girlfriend, played by Davina Goh) profile page. Anna doesn’t appear interested in taking their relationship to the next level, which includes changing her “Single” status to “In a Relationship”.

Dave then pans over to his flatmate, Jo (Khairil M Bahar), who has been moping about for the last three months, recovering from a nasty breakup. Annoyed with Jo’s emotional outbursts, Dave sets him up with a Facebook account, assuring his unwilling flatmate that networking will somehow make everything better.

The story also jumps over to other characters who are connected to Dave, in one way or the other.
One of them is his colleague Lee (Benji Lim), who proposes to his filmmaker girlfriend (Amanda Ang), much to the intense dislike of his sister Sarah (Adeline Ong).


Another is Selina (Susan Lankester), who finds out that her recently deceased husband’s Facebook account is still active. Overwhelmed by emotions and memories of her dead spouse, she tries all that she can to close it down.

“Relationship Status” is Khairil’s third feature film, with his first being “Ciplak”. Like the latter, it was developed on a shoestring budget. This one however, though written primarily in English, does have some Malay and even a little bit of Hokkien.

 
Though a somewhat serious romantic drama at its very base, the show has many light-hearted moments. It starts off well, with a generous sprinkling of witty banter, and comfortable chemistry between the characters involved.

There are also bits and pieces that make Relationship Status a little more complete, with examples of familial ties and even blissful ignorance. Another plus point to the film is its soundtrack selection, featuring local indie artistes Az Samad, Darren Ashley, OJ Law and so on.

The show can also be seen as a reflection of real life, with Facebook having the power to affect relationships, for better or for worse.


Well, who doesn't go through a relationship roller-coaster? Everybody does but since the involvement of the social networks, such as Facebook, Twitter and etc have totally changed the landscape of our lives. This movie was only aired on selected TGV cinemas though I don't quite understand why not GSC, but it was really worth it.

A movie with a lot of messages in it though the budget of the movie was really quite embarrassing as it did seem quite a low quality movie. If there was a little more spent, I really believe that this movie would really have created some noise amongst the movie-goers but sadly many of my friends didn't even know that this movie was up.

What happened to the marketing? If this is how we are going to product our stuffs, I won't be surprised that Malaysian Movie industry continues to take more hits. Other than that, those who haven't watch this, go and watch it now!!! Just kidding, but make sure you don't miss this 1 out!

Till the next update, ciao!  



Friday, January 27, 2012

Day 17 : Your highs and lows of this past year.

So here I am again snailing towards my 17th day of the challenge. As how the title says, am gonna talk about how 2011 was. I did a post about 2011 a few days after the new year countdowns but I think I didn't put in enough stuffs in there hence here I am.

http://ty-my-thoughts.blogspot.com/2012/01/year-that-was.html

Above is the link for my overview of 2011. Basically 2011 was a year where I didn't really have much significant highs but I certainly had 1 significant low which I think I will never ever be able to overcome for the rest of my life regardless of whatever I was to do.

Before I go into details of that event, I shall talk a little about 1 of my mini achievement and how it fell short of being a proper 1.


So yea I bought that bike. My 1st ever bike and it was a 180cc scooter! But how it fell short of being a proper high?

Yep I had an accident. Why? I got no idea and I still don't know how I even crashed all I remember is me sliding on the road. I was lucky because my friend was behind me and she saved me. Since then bike key has been taken away from me. No more bikey. ='(

Now about the big low point that I was talking about earlier. I am the biggest fool of 2011 as I threw away the one person who really loved me for reasons that I still can't exactly comprehend. Ever since both of us have gone some distance with memories we would love to forget.

I've realized my mistake ever since and have been trying to make it up but I know that what I did has no retribution to it. Regardless of whatever that I was to do even to serve for the rest of my life would not be enough. Something I would certainly not forget for the rest of my life. The pain I caused has caused me more pain.

Words are never gonna be enough and I've run outa words to explain about the whole thing. However I have pledged myself to make things better though.

So yea part of my 2011 over here. You could also check below url for more details on my review of 2011.

http://ty-my-thoughts.blogspot.com/2012/01/year-that-was.html


I shall end this post. I wish I could say it but I rather not piss or upset you.

I shall be back with more updates. Sorry for such an emotional post. Till the next time, cheers people!


Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Underworld : The awakening.

Guess what? I dropped by to watch the Underworld last night! It was in 3D and was freaking awesome! Though the storyline is kinda crappy compared to the previous editions, yet this edition certainly didn't disappoint me in other aspects.



Below is the official trailer and followed by the plot.



Plot
"Kate Beckinsale, star of the first two films, returns in her lead role as the vampire warrioress Selene, who escapes imprisonment to find herself in a world where humans have discovered the existence of both Vampire and Lycan clans, and are conducting an all-out war to eradicate both immortal species.


Six months after the events of Underworld: Evolution, Selene (Kate Beckinsale) was captured by humans. Eventually both government officials and the public learn about the existence of the two immortal species of Vampires and Lycans (Werewolves). A crusade and all-out war has begun: study and eradicate.



After being imprisoned in cryogenic suspension for 12 years, Selene manages to escape the facility. During the same time, another suspect has also escaped the same facility that Selene was in. The suspect was Eve (India Eisley), a hybrid who is the key to ending the war.


So that's the main plot for the movie but be prepared for lots and lots of action as this is packed with it though Selene's role sticks mostly to her favorite hand guns. Would have loved to see her wielding those metal weapons though.

Watching this show on 3D was awesome since I watched the previous sequels on DVD. Well as we all know there is gonna be another edition to this the 5th Underworld and I am looking forward for it. Just before that I am biting my nails waiting for ......


So that's all for now. But just to let you guys know, I might have a slow month from now onwards but I will certainly be back after my birthday! Don't know when its my birthday? Do your research! =P

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Day 16 : Your views on mainstream music.

Wow, this is a tough 1 to talk about. I am a music lover but I only listen to music that I find catchy. So basically I don't really support 1 particular band or artist but I support their work. I don't know if I am kinda contradicting myself. *poker face*

However, recently I am really attracted to some youtube talents who do covers of established singers. Though it isn't their own, I find that they produce much better versions compared to the artists themselves. No disrespect to them artists, but sometimes certain type of songs suites better with certain type of music.

For instance, recent hit by Katy Perry - The one that got away. The original version took away the feel of the song as it was too hyped up for quite an emotional song. Then I found 1 version by Boyce Avenue



And via their post, I found Tiffany Alvord & Chester See's cover of the same song and I thought to myself, "OMG! This version is way more complete than any that I ever came across."





This version really carries a lot of emotions in it. If you really understand the lyrics am pretty sure that this version would leave a mark within you. 


Anyways, coming back to the main topic, the music nowdays come in every styles. Some suitable and some aren't. While some you might be thinking " Why the f*** was this even made in the 1st place!" kinda stuff. But however, am sure there are people who enjoy them cause everybody have their own preferences.*wink*

While for me, I listen to any language song as long as it catches my attention. For instance, my phone has English, Korean, Japanese, Tamil, Chinese, Malay, and Spanish songs. So if you know nice songs do share with me! 

Am done with my day 16th post. Though am not quite sure if I even did hit the topic or not. LOL.


More updates coming your way guys!!

Day 15 - Your favourite Tumblrs

Oh well since I got some time to kill might as well I just get another update going right? So later on atleast I could brag that I made it to the half line of this challenge!! (though it took me a year to reach it... =.=")

So day 15 topic would be my favourite Tumblrs. Though I don't have any Tumblr account, I do check this 2 Tumblr accounts once in a blue moon. Am not gonna say anything but just click on the URL below here to get access to them aight?


However, there is this 1 particular blog that often steals my heart everytime I see an update. I forgot how I came across this blog but honestly, the author puts everything so beautiful that it is just purely for those who could understand those deep meanings.

http://www.iwrotethisforyou.me 

It's not Tumblr but a normal blog with lotsa awesome photography and quotes. I've followed this group since I think about 2 years now. Go check them out!

So these are a few sites that I often play around with. I rarely go blog hopping as I don't know many bloggers except a few friends like them below.


Each blog has different styles compared to mine but still I like their stuff. Some of you guys might have dropped by 1 of these blogs but I assure you, follow them so you can keep updated with their stuffs! It's always nice to make friends, no? *wink*

I suppose am done with 15th day topic for now. LOL Ciao ciao!!