The reflection of a man...

I was in the mood to reflect my actions and the words I have spoken for the day to my beloved when I sorta bumped into this article of how Brad Pit saved his marriage. Honestly, I was never a fan of this couple both in movies and outside movies but I certainly have nothing against them as well. Without further delaying below is the post, read it and reflect on yourselves guys.

I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it- Brad Pitt writes a sweet love letter to Angelina Jolie

“My wife got sick.  She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. 
She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs.
She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. 
Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. 
I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. 
After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. 
She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.
I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.
You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man. If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it.“           
- Brad Pitt

Love is a strange thing

Love and marriage on the outside seems to be a glorious ride but everyone who has been married tells us—it is a bumpy one…beware. But they do say love cures all. Deciding to love and stick through it during all kinds of obstacles is not an easy road. However, the rewards are amazing. Make it a choice to go out of your way to be nice to your spouse.

This unexpected gesture of love will trigger something in him or her and make her respond to you the same way! The Brad Pitt love story is inspiring on the surface–we won’t really know what celebrities have to go through. Their lives are not anything like ours. However we can learn a thing or two about love from the above letter (regardless of who wrote it).

So how do you all find it? They do say that "Behind every successful man, there is a woman" but how many Man would wanna be the reason to their woman's success? I certainly do! I know I have not been the best I could be in recent days and I know that I have to buck up before I end up regretting. I love you and I will always do! Though am not sure if you do actually read this or not, if you do, I hope it puts a smile on your face and a strong urge that "I am your man".*hugs*